Dear Spencer,

When I first met you... I looked like this:

 And you looked like this:

We were friends, but that was about it.  I was busy "dating older men" as you like to say, or "getting good grades" as I like to say.  You were busy... playing the field :)

Following our Freshman year, you went on your mission here:

About a year later, I went on my mission here:

I always wondered why I was called to serve early.  I went into the MTC as a 20 year old even though I put my availability date for after I had turned 21.  Apparently, the Lord had a different plan.  Throughout my mission, many wonderful things happened that made me think, "Okay, THIS is why I was supposed to come out here early.  I had to be in this place at this time."  Although I still believe those experiences were a part of the reason I was called out early, I've come up with an additional theory.

Because I went out before my 21st birthday, I came back in July 2008... a good 3 months before I was expecting to be able to.  Had I come back even a single transfer later than I did, I wouldn't have been able to go to BYU during the Fall 2008 semester.  My first week back at school, this happened:

We met up at a BYU football game, reminisced about the good times we had back in 2004, and exchanged phone numbers.

We went on a few dates after that, and I liked you a lot.  I remember texting my mom after our second date.  I wrote, "I like him, but I don't want to be one of those RMs who gets into a relationship immediately after getting home.  I think I'm going to tell him we've had fun but I'm done after our third date tonight."  My mom still laughs at the text message she got from me the next day, "Okay mom, nevermind.  I really like him.  I'm pretty sure we're going to keep dating."

Years later, I found out that at this point (yeah... it was after we kissed for the first time...) although I was hooked, you still needed some more convincing.  I decided that it was time for ME to take YOU on a date.  We went here:

...and I think that by opening up your stomach, I finally opened up your heart.  I had to bribe you, but we decided to give "us" a try.  I'm so glad you agreed :)

We did all the things that people who date do.  We carved pumpkins:

We picked each others' noses... (Okay... not everyone does that.  We MAY have posed for this one...):

And when your family went on a trip to Las Vegas, I was invited to come along.  We met the red M&M at the peanut factory.  Everyone does that, right?

Before too long, I realized I loved you (although yes, I'll finally admit, you said it first).  We started talking about our future and on December 17, 2008, this happened:

The next semester seemed to drag on forever.  Through all the wedding plans, homework assignents, job hours, etc., we got to see each other for about 2-3 glorious hours day.  We still made the most of it:

Finally... the big day arrived.  On May 2, 2009 we were married for time and all eternity in the Salt Lake City Temple.  It was the best day of my life (up to that point.  Don't worry... it hasn't been a downhill slide ever since).  I still feel like the luckiest girl alive:

We did all the things that newlyweds do... we lived in a closet-sized, dumpy apartment, we went to school full-time, be both worked all the time, but we still made sure to have fun.

We went to DC to visit my family:

We dressed up as Luna Lovegood and Neville Longbottom for the Harry Potter 6 midnight premiere:

 We did a fun murder mystery dinner with your family:

We did all sorts of fun stuff!

When everyone around us started popping babies out, my baby hunger kicked into overdrive.  I think you had it all along, too.  After several long months (that felt much longer than they were...), we found out on January 3, 2011 that our prayers of having a baby were finally going to be answered. 

When the journey began, my bump was pretty small:





We had fun with our little "It's a boy! No, It's a girl!" battle, but in reality, we both thought it was a boy all along:

By 40 weeks, I was swollen like an elephant and somehow you still loved me.  I think we both knew this baby was going to be HUGE:

On August 24, 2011, we welcomed the most beautiful baby we've ever seen into the world and we were both in love at first sight.  (Can you even imagine what we did before he was here?)  I love being your baby mama:

Now, 8 months have passed and Colton is getting bigger every day:



I wouldn't have it any other way and I wouldn't want to do any of it with anyone else.  I love you infinity O, salt and pepper shaker, paprika (if you're not Spencer, don't ask).  Thanks for letting me take you to Outback 4 years ago.  :)

Happy 3 year anniversary!

-A.Corn.